LWhen it comes to SM, many people immediately think of dripping wax, binding, clips, whips… These seem to be not difficult, but they are afraid to practice them. The main reason is because they don’t understand.
One is that they don’t understand the principle, why dripping wax can bring strange pleasure to the other party? The second is that they do not understand the methods and steps of operation. After all, these things seem to be harmful to a certain extent, and they are actually the same. Only by correct operation can unnecessary injuries be avoided.
Today I’m here to talk to you about “dropping wax”, which sounds a bit scary, and what it’s all about. As a common and traditional way of playing in SM, dripping wax is actually quite common in this kind of activities, and it is not as rare as everyone imagines.
When I was a child, if there was a power outage at home and candles were lit, the child would always be unable to hold back his inner curiosity and light up the candles. He would inevitably drip tears from the candles on his hands, and instantly felt very hot, but after a minute or two, the pain disappeared. , and it feels like nothing at all.
That’s the fun thing about dripping wax, it can evoke an almost instinctive desire for pain without worrying about real damage. There is a saying that the brain’s mechanisms for processing fear and pleasure are similar, both secreting adrenaline and endorphins, but because the brain knows that the current behavior is safe, it will redirect fear to pleasure.
The wax oil is between semi-liquid and semi-solid. I don’t know when it will drip, where it will drip, and at what speed and temperature it will touch my skin. Fear, excitement, nervousness, and anticipation in my heart, everything seems to be planned, but it is not under my control. I am obviously the one who suffers, but there is a sense of uncontrollable pleasure, completely swallowed by expectations and desires. , It can be regarded as a rare and unique experience in life.
And for him, seeing you struggling, writhing, moaning under his body, watching you pitifully begging for mercy, that will probably be the time when he wants to conquer you the most in his life.
I wonder if this explanation has given you a deeper understanding and expectation of dripping wax?
| What are Low Temperature Candles
Many people think that the candles used in SM are no different from the candles we usually use. But in fact, like the hemp rope and clips used in SM, the candles used by SM are not ordinary candles, but “low temperature candles”.
This kind of low-temperature candle has a lower temperature than ordinary candles, with a melting point of about 60°C. In addition to the cooling during the dripping process (by the way, adjusting the distance between the candle and the skin can control the temperature at which the wax oil touches the human body), it really falls to When it is on the skin, it is between 50~55°C. This temperature will not burn the skin, it will only produce a very slight burn, but it can trigger the secretion of endorphins and then breed pleasure.
As for ordinary candles, that is, candles used in daily life, the melting point is generally around 80°C. Wax oil at this temperature drips on the body, and it may burn you if you are not careful. Novices should not try it.
Dry! It doesn’t matter if you want to play with dripping wax, you have to use a fucking low-temperature candle! You fucking took the candle to pray to the Bodhisattva, and you were almost saved by you! —— Someone’s complaint
In addition to the difference in temperature, good low-temperature candles now use natural beeswax as raw materials, and then add natural oil products such as olive oil, and aromatic substances such as essential oils.
The faint fragrance emitted by such candles after burning can not only create a comfortable and relaxing environment, but even scents such as jasmine and ylang-ylang have aphrodisiac effects. And after enjoying the pleasure of hot wax dripping on her skin, she can continue to massage her body with this hot wax oil, rubbing it on her skin, it feels smooth to the touch.
On-site layout and props preparation
SM’s on-site layout, first of all, is the lighting, the brightness should not be too high, and a candlelight dinner is necessary to have an atmosphere. This kind of thing needs to be more emotional, otherwise it will completely lose the sense of mystery it should have.
Of course, don’t turn on the lights at all, as this will inevitably have safety concerns. You can turn on a warm yellow night light or desk lamp, or throw a flashlight under the bed, and the atmosphere will instantly become ambiguous. If not, simply light another candle and put it in a safe place, the candle flickers ambiguously, the air is filled with lust, under the warm light he looks so mysterious, full of power and control, you will have a kind of I don’t know which second, you will die in the throbbing of his hands.
After the atmosphere is set up, some ice cubes or a wet towel that has been twisted in advance should be prepared, so that when she is really burned, a cold compress can be applied in time, which will reduce his pain and prevent physical damage. Injuried. If possible, prepare a scald ointment in advance in case of emergency, although the probability of this is very low.
In addition, considering the later cleaning, you can also lay a waterproof layer on the sheets (disposable sheets are recommended), or prepare clean sheets, which can be replaced after the end.
In terms of safety, you should also pay attention to tidy up the surrounding things before playing, fire prevention first, and find a spacious place for candles. Prepare a basin of water in the bathroom in advance, in case it really burns, you can also put out the fire in time!
| Where is the best place to drip wax
Before practicing, remember this principle: the closer the candle is to the human body, the higher the temperature of the dripping wax oil will be, and the greater the angle of the candle’s inclination, the faster the dripping wax oil will be. Wax can be dripped on most parts of the human body, but each part has different tolerance to the burning sensation.
After the wax melts, it is recommended to start dripping from a height above 30cm. First test the temperature with the back of your hand, and then practice. If the temperature is acceptable, then slowly shorten the distance. In other words, you can also find a temperature that suits you by controlling the height of the candle, whether it is a little stimulating or a little gentle.
As for the most suitable places to drip wax, for beginners, it should be those parts with high tolerance to burning sensation and large areas, which belong to low-sensitivity areas, such as chest, back, outer thighs, buttocks, etc. There are few peripheral nerves in these places, and the sensation is relatively blunt, and there will be no excessive reaction to burning heat, and the area is large, so it is not easy to drip.
After trying these low-sensitivity areas, you can slowly move towards some more sensitive areas with more delicate skin, such as the neck, sides of the chest, chest, abdomen, inner thighs, soles of the feet, etc. The peripheral nerves in these places are more developed, and the reaction is much stronger, so during the process of dripping, you should always pay attention to the reaction of the other party.
If there is a slight struggle and twisting of the body, or a low humming, then the current height of the candle and the frequency of dripping are appropriate; if the other party’s reaction gradually calms down, you can slightly lower the height of the candle and increase the inclination of the candle But if she is very painful and yells safe words, then she must stop immediately, communicate and adjust in time.
Finally, there are highly sensitive areas, such as pubic hair, nipple, vulva, glans, asshole, etc. These parts can be sealed with wax oil. The tight and burning feeling cannot be experienced anywhere get. But the premise is that the quality of the candles must pass the standard. To buy good quality candles, the temperature must be suitable. Most importantly, she is willing and able to bear it. Not recommended for beginners.
If there are many candle tears during the process, you can try to “drip wax painting” on the other party’s body, use wax oil to drip out a heart, or love, etc., sublimating the pure erotic activity to the height of emotion, it will definitely make her excited In addition to being moved.
Finally, it is also very simple to remove the wax oil. You only need to apply cold compresses to the skin and move a little. After the skin shrinks, the wax blocks will fall off naturally. Beginners try not to drip candles on the hair, it will be very troublesome when cleaning, if you accidentally get it on, you can use hot water with a higher temperature to scald it a little, and it can usually get it off.
Also, don’t just stare at one place and keep dripping. If the dripping wax oil is too concentrated, the temperature will accumulate and it will easily burn you.
| Advanced gameplay of dripping wax
The above is just the basic gameplay of dripping wax, so how can we play tricks and make it more interesting?
That is bundled, which is the standard configuration of dripping wax. Under normal circumstances, people will instinctively dodge because they are worried about being dripped with wax oil. At this time, if they are tied up, it will not be so easy to dodge. Don’t rush to drip on the other person as soon as you light the candle, you can hold the candle and walk slowly on the other person’s body to increase her fear and excitement of waiting. There is no requirement for the binding method, just ensure that the part where the wax is dripped is upward.
Then there is the blindfold, the eyes are dark, the other party can only rely on other sensory organs to identify and perceive, and the sense of touch will become more sensitive. At this time when the wax oil dripped, she would never guess which inch of skin would be affected, and she also didn’t know when the next drop of wax oil would fall, and her whole body would enter a tense state, which could strengthen the stimulating feeling.
In practice, she can blindfold the other party’s eyes in advance, bind her hands and feet, and then turn off the lights and leave for ten minutes. In this situation where she has lost part of her senses and functions, her perception of the outside world can only be replaced by imagination. The perception of time will also fail, and the inner tension, fear, and expectation will be magnified several times, and the post-production effect will also be magnified several times.
Finally, let’s talk about the color of candles. Different colors will have different visual effects when dripped on the body. It’s hard to say which one is more exciting, after all, it varies from person to person. But the white candle drips on the body, after cooling, it will look like being fucked by a boyfriend…
| 51 other fun ways to play
In fact, dripping wax can be regarded as a fun game with a high degree of difficulty. It has high requirements on props, skills, and environment, and has certain technical difficulties. Before playing, you must communicate well and do your homework. Isn’t the “guessing game” like the one below quite interesting?
Prepare daily things such as comb teeth, toothbrush bristles, plastic toys, high heels, metal spoons, etc. In short, products that can make TA skin feel a little irritated. If you are not sure about the effect, try it on your sensitive parts first. a bit. In addition to everyday things, it can also be not so everyday things.
After taking off your clothes, cover TA’s eyes, touch TA’s skin with the above tools, let TA guess what tool you are using by feeling, and stipulate that you can’t move in the middle! If you guess wrong, you have to drink or accept a punishment of a small leather whip; if you guess right, feed TA a strawberry mouth to mouth, and if you win three times in a row, you can get some advanced rewards.